” On a quest to start a new life, you will face a lot of challenges and uphill battles that will try to bring you down. Fears will arise that will make you stumble and the only way to stop them is to face them! As a friend, I would like you to know that life will knock us down but we can choose to get back up. Remember, always, be strong. Root that in your heart.”
Written in 2010 by Kiplimo Chemirmir
When is the perfect time to start? There will never be a perfect time. But there will always be obstacles and fear in starting something new. You must overcome those and face those challenges.
I have a client who first told me she was scared to do her first bootcamp and almost didn’t come. She ended up doing well and breaking the ice. The next day in bootcamp she wasn’t there because her friends didn’t come. This was her fear. After a few more classes with friends she decided she was ready to do it without them, because of how she felt exercising and seeing the results.
This gal ended up winning her corporate fitness challenge and is making the commitment to continue to exercise regularly even after the challenge.
I saw a great “chick flick” yesterday called Love Happens. Besides the mushy stuff where he gets the girl in the end like most flicks of this calliber, the more important message was to face your fears. This guy was so good at talking about the fears others face and how to face them yet he had his own fears he never overcame. In the end, he started learning more about himself and finally faced his fears.
When it comes to real life and not movies, yes, there is a lot of fear. I myself have a huge fear of rejection. This has spawned from childhood days and why I push myself so hard in my workouts. Recently, I have been talking to friends about this and it is helping me with reaching my goals for training, relationships, and getting the most out of life instead of fearing what others think.
Everyone has a fear of something. Face it! and over come it. Share your daily struggles with others whether it be with diet, exercise, family, work or love, and talk about it. A huge weight will be lifted off your chest and you can feel the sense of being able to take a full breath.
Rent the movie Love Happens and get the message. It is not just about love, it is about living.